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Doing something right

October 21, 2008 · 4 Comments

Have you ever had things happen in your life that make stop and wonder?  This year I was asked to sing the closing prayers for the Haftorah on Yom Kippur at my Congregation.  It was an honor, and then I found out that they were an ‘alternative’ version.  So much for my Bar Mitzvah training.

But I was saved by my new friend Cantor Debbi Ballard (mypersonalcantor)!  This blog connected us and within a month that connection affected me in a personal and spiritual way.  A friend at the service pulled me aside and commented on what a great experience for my son to see me participate in the service and what a great example it was for him (he’s 11).

Shortly thereafter (last week during Sukkot) we were playing soccer in the front yard and the rabbi of the local Chabad came walking by with his family.  Now let me tell you that in over forty years life, never has a rabbi been just walking by my house, I mean really…. After introductions, he breaks out, yes you guessed it,  a lulav and etrog, and asked me if I wanted to make a prayer for Sukkot.  A few years ago, I would probably have passed but now, after studying Torah a little, I accepted the sign and the opportunity to suck my son into both a spiritual and embarrassing moment.

So picture this, my son and I standing in our front yard with a rabbi reciting prayers of thanks with cones on our heads for yarmulkes (the kind you run around for an obstacle). Where is a cell phone when you need one ;-)

The point is that as I have opened myself and started following a spiritual path I have been blessed by friends, great coincidences and personal connections.  I use the word coincidence but my rabbi does not believe in them, he believes in G-d.

Whether its my personal path, or that we are providing MitzvahArt, I think its pretty clear we are doing something right.  Feels good.

What do you think?

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  • Is it a coincidence? Or is it God? « Cantorballard’s Weblog // October 27, 2008 at 2:45 pm | Reply

    [...] Cohen, who I have had the pleasure of connecting with, thanks to the internet.  Rob’s recent post about his High Holiday, Haftorah-reading return to the bimah, included a beautiful word of thanks [...]

  • Yisroel Freeman // October 28, 2008 at 11:01 pm | Reply

    BS”D

    Hi Rob

    I really enjoyed reading your post and I love how you described the story and what it meant to you.

    Here is the other side of the Chabad Rabbi story.

    We went on this walk to visit someone who had called me the day before all upset that their Lulav & Etrog order from Boston had been mixed up and they had recieved only two items. So I said to my wife let us all go and visit them on the 1st day of Sukkot and bring them the Lulav and Etrog. So we decide to take a walk with my 3 little kids for the 1. something mile walk to our friends house.

    Well our walks in Sudbury are always an experience and we always manage to meet new people living in the area. So off we go and 5 minutes into the walk a red car pulls up and a lady looks at us in shock and asks us in Hebrew “Atem Garim Poh”? “Do you live here”? She is a visiting scholar in residence at Brandeis and was overjoyed to meet us, and we parted after talking for ten minutes. About 3 minutes later on our walk we met you and your son and loved your shocked look at seeing us and we loved your friendliness and how you welcomed us. Doing the blessing on the Lulav with the cones on the head was a Kodak moment and unique and my little kids just loved your version of the Kippah.

    We were amazed yet again as you mentioned in your own post at the amount of Divine Providence in a single event, what was originally perceived as something negative turned out to be the cause for us meeting yourselves and the Israeli lady. Thus the joy of Sukkot was shared by even more people without us even planning on it being that way.

    One of the amazing things that always inspires me is the amount of amazing “coincidences” which we like to call “Divine Providence’s” that occur to us on a daily and weekly basis. This was one more amazing encounter which really made our day and made us realize how everything we do is tied into a bigger picture and deeper purpose, we just have to try and utilize those opportunities to make them as happy, positive and meaningful as possible.

    Shalom

    Yisroel Freeman

    http://www.chabadsudbury.com

  • Ali Williams // November 29, 2008 at 2:26 am | Reply

    Rob,

    I found your blog and I love it! I have thought about our conversation several times and I think it is clear that as we seek the Lord, He becomes easier to find. When I was on my mission in Brazil I had a companion who often said, “I don’t believe in coincidence, only providence.” I must say I believe her.

    Keep in touch

  • 1000mitzvahs // December 15, 2008 at 1:17 am | Reply

    I just found your blog on Debbie Ballard’s website. She also connected with me several months ago on my blog. I think you are definitely on the right path and I applaud you for running a business that is providing meaningful gifts for others. It is awesome when we discover our authentic purpose.

    I’d love to put you on as a resource at my blog let me know what you think.

    Linda
    1000mitzvahs.org

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